We’re all aware that Nelson Mandela is critically ill in hospital and
close to his passing. It seems a shame we always wait until the
inspirational icons are no longer with us, before we start to
contemplate and celebrate their legend. In a world where people
frequently express their disillusionment with politicians and their
inability to make a difference, he’s a shining star. For me, there are
seven profound lessons that CEOs and leaders can learn from the great
Nelson “Madiba” Mandela:
(1) Master your meaning and your emotions
“I
am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul,” Mandela still
likes to quote from W. E. Henley’s Victorian poem ‘Invictus’. Prepared
to go to prison for his political beliefs, Mandela stood tall. When his
African National Congress (ANC) had been banned by the apartheid South
African government in 1960, Mandela had advocated that the party abandon
its policy of non-violence, leading to a sentence of life imprisonment.
He said, “I was made, by the law, a criminal, not because of what I had
done, but because of what I stood for.”
Reflecting on the moment
when he entered Robben Island prison, off the coast of Cape Town,
Mandela said, “how you’re treated in prison depends on your demeanor.”
Threatened with violence by an Afrikaans prison guard, he told him, “You
dare touch me, I will take you to the highest court in the land. And by
the time I finish with you, you will be as poor as a church mouse.”
Keeping
his emotions in check, relations with his captors improved as he sought
to “communicate with them in a message that says I recognize your
humanity”. His official biographer Anthony Sampson argues that, during
his 27 years in jail, Mandela was able to develop “a philosopher’s
detachment,” as well as, “the subtler art of politics: how to relate to
all kinds of people, how to persuade and cajole, how to turn his warders
into his dependents, and how eventually to become master in his own
prison.”
CEOs operate in a much more time-compressed environment,
yet should work towards attaining a similar state of Zen-like calm and
detachment. In this place, they will not only benefit from better health
and wellbeing, but keep sight of the bigger picture and avoid getting
buffeted by day-to-day issues.
(2) Treat the losers with dignity and turn them into partners
In
1989, apartheid South Africa suffered from racial violence and a
faltering economy at home, while it was shunned abroad. The continuing
struggle between the black and white populations seemed like a recipe
for mutual destruction, like Israel and Palestine. However, the arrival
of new president F.W. de Klerk finally presented Mandela faced with a
more pragmatic political opponent, who was minded to free him from
prison. For years, Mandela had stood for freedom from oppression. How to
approach his captor and would-be liberator? Mandela’s lawyer George
Bizos explained the thinking: “Let’s help him. Let’s not keep him in his
corner by calling him an oppressor. Even the term can become such a
stigma.” Mandela helped de Klerk to, “move from that concept called
oppressor to that of a partner”.
Mandela understood that in a
negotiation, both sides have to gain. There must be no winners and no
losers: the South African people as a whole must win. Learning the
lessons from Germany at end of the First World War, he believed, “You
mustn’t compromise your principles, but you mustn’t humiliate the
opposition. No one is more dangerous than one who is humiliated.”
The
process through which Mandela managed to free himself, end apartheid
and create a new South African constitution was testament to his
tremendous generosity of spirit. George Bizos added that Mandela
believed that, “we don’t have to be victims of our past, that we can let
go of our bitterness, and that all of us can achieve greatness… he did
it not through beating anybody down; most people wouldn’t have the
forgiveness to do that sort of thing.”
(3) Shift perspectives through symbolism and shared experiences
Through
his example and presence, Mandela has always led from the front. Like
Gandhi or Churchill, he learned early how to build up and understand his
own image. His trademark colorful shirts mirror his exuberance and
optimism while reflecting his tribal roots. The 1995 Rugby World Cup
provided an even bigger stage for Mandela to fuse his own image with
that of the new nation that he was trying to build.
How do you get
42 million people to tolerate one another? Rugby was traditionally a
white man’s game in South Africa, and the black majority population
would routinely support the teams of opposing nations. However, Mandela
seized upon the PR opportunity of South Africa hosting the 1995
tournament to rebrand the Springbok team, whose kit took on the colors
of the new national flag. One team, one country, all would walk tall
under the new flag. Mandela even demanded that the team learn the words
of the new national anthem, ‘Nkosi Sikelel' iAfrika’, asking God to
bless Africa for all of us. Although the firm underdogs, the national
team was able to beat the New Zealand All Blacks in the final –
Mandela’s single act of wearing the Springbok jersey was said to bring
on side 99% of the white and 99% of the black South African audience, in
a single stroke.
Team captain Morné de Plessis helpfully argued
that this campaign was “respecting the people that we represented and
what we could give back.” After the game, the team took a boat trip to
the Robben Island prison, further adding to the national symbolism. “The
world needs moments of great joy… the world needs to see that there are
moments that we can live together,” de Plessis said, adding: “Sport is
the great leveler. [Our victory was inspired by] the father of this
nation, the one who inspired to come together when we never ever
believed that we could do it. That’s called leadership.”
The other
big shared experience designed to bring together opposing factions was
the creation of the Truth & Reconciliation Commission. This was
about creating a public forum where people could air confront their
former aggressors, make their voice heard and get to the truth. Mandela
wanted to avoid the acrimony of the Nuremburg trials, which he felt had
turned into a vengeful witch-hunt. Instead, this was “soft vengeance…
the triumph of a moral vision of the moral world.”
CEOs too can
learn to acknowledge the past and draw a line under it. Then, through
shared experiences, they must forge a powerful new purpose that people
can connect to and believe in.
(4) Embody the spirit of Ubuntu
In
2007, in partnership with entrepreneur Richard Branson and singer Peter
Gabriel, Mandela founded ‘The Elders’. Composed of former heads of
state, revolutionaries, peacemakers and chaired by Archbishop Desmond
Tutu, The Elders work as a small, dedicated group of individuals, using
their collective experience and influence to help tackle some of the
most pressing problems facing the world today.
In the launch
address, Mandela talked about bringing “the spirit of Ubuntu: that
profound African sense that we are human only through the humanity of
other human beings.” In a thread that defines his whole life, he said,
“I believe that in the end that it is kindness and accommodation that
are the catalysts for real change.”
With such high ideals, Mandela
was alert to the potential dangers of his own personality cult. He
learned to talk less about “I” and more about “we,” and was determined
“to be looked at as an ordinary human being”. Mandela himself has
repeatedly said that “I’m no angel,” and his presidential predecessor
F.W. de Klerk concurs: “He was by no means the avuncular, saint-like
figure depicted today. As an opponent he could be brutal and quite
unfair.” However, while people may have disagreed with the policies
Mandela pursued, they don’t question his integrity. His biographer
believes that “it was his essential integrity more than his superhuman
myth which gave his story its appeal across the world.”
CEOs are
rarely, if ever, depicted as angels, but people have to trust them. Even
if they’re not liked, people will rally behind them if they know what
they stand for and what they believe in.
(5) Everybody feels bigger in your presence
Time
and again people comment on Mandela’s strong personality, saying that
he has a aura about him. FĂȘted by crowds around the world, Mandela mixed
politics and showbiz; criticized for prioritizing social engagements
with the Spice Girls or Michael Jackson over a visiting head of state.
The
adoration of crowds did not faze him: “I am not very nervous of love,
for love is very inspiring.” However, Mandela is also a man of intrinsic
humility, with the ability to laugh at himself. “I’m only here to shine
her shoes,” he said when meeting Whitney Houston. At a White House
reception for religious leaders, Bill Clinton paid an emotional tribute
to his guest: “Every time Nelson Mandela walks into a room we all feel a
little bigger, we all want to stand up, we all want to cheer, because
we’d like to be him on our best day.”
Leaders and CEOs who have
this x-factor succeed. Our gut feels their absence when they are
replaced by a less charismatic successor, even if we delude ourselves
that the new guy is a welcome sobering contrast. British prime minister
Gordon Brown was no match for the towering presence of Tony Blair; and
even if seen to be doing many of the right things at Apple, Tim Cook
lacks the swagger of innovator-supreme Steve Jobs.
(6) Build a sustainable fellowship around your cause
It
is interesting to speculate how Nelson Mandela would have fared in the
age of social media. Confined to his prison cell, much of the
technological era passed him by. However, he was never short of
followers, and he understood that mass engagement began with a solid
core base. Permitted to converse with other prisoners at Robben Island
only when laboring at its mine, his inner core was variously termed the
‘brotherhood’, ‘kitchen cabinet’ and ‘university’. The bedrock of his
trusted inner sanctum provided him with the foundation from which to
keep on being inspiring. Those who were admitted to Mandela’s close
fellowship during those years also flourished: close friend Ahmed
Kathrada went on to hold senior government positions, while Thabo Mbeki
and Jacob Zuma graduated to lead the party. Political prisoners admitted
that they actually looked forward in a sense to going to prison, as
they would get to meet the true leaders of the country.
Often
seeming to be above race, once in power Mandela broadened his fellowship
to include white and Indian colleagues, whom he trusted them
completely. He made former president F.W. de Klerk his deputy, and his
“rainbow cabinet” was one of the few genuinely multiracial governments
in the world. Looking to the corporate world, Jack Ma of Chinese
e-commerce company Alibaba has also been effective at drawing to his
cause a group of highly loyal co-founders. CEOs should develop a true
fellowship structure that devolves responsibility and brings on
promising talent.
7) Bottle the dream for future generations
After
27 years in captivity, it is easy to overlook the fact that Mandela was
only actually president of South Africa for five years. He said that he
was one of the generation “for whom the achievement of democracy was
the defining challenge”. Aged 80 by the time he stepped down in 1999,
Mandela argued that, “when a man has done what he considers to be his
duty to his people and his country, he can rest in peace… We take leave
so that the competent generation of lawyers, computer experts,
economists, financiers, doctors, industrialists, engineers and above all
ordinary workers and peasants can take the ANC into the new
millennium.”
Many great leaders are true ‘one-offs’ and it is too
simplistic to suggest that they should seek to bottle their essence to
be preserved in aspic. Rather, the big challenge for them is to groom
the next generation and ‘blend the essence’ so that it’s fit for their
current and future organization. His chosen successor and fellowship
member, Thabo Mbeki, was effectively running the country for some of the
years while Mandela was still president, with Mandela taking on an
increasingly ceremonial role.
The verdict so far on his
successors? The next generation of ANC leaders has not been seen to
deliver universally good governance: the country continues to be
blighted by crime, and the OECD reports that more than 50% of the
population is living in poverty. However, South Africa is still is a
young country, one that Mandela stamped with the concept of racial
tolerance and cooperation as firmly as his predecessors had stamped it
with intolerance and segregation.
What we’ve experienced from
Mandela’s life is potentially just the start, and his legend is going to
be bigger still. In the corporate world that’s my life’s work, we
desperately need a new generation of companies that are truly global,
courageous and entrepreneurial, and institutions that people care for.
Their future leaders would do well to adopt the Mandela mindset and his
seven profound lessons.
Having discharged his duty to his people
and his country, Mandela can truly rest in peace. He showed us how one
person with humility, a dream and a connecting cause could magnify
himself and inspire us all. He should take great pride in the legacy
that he leaves behind, as it continues to ripple across the world and
through future generations. Nelson Mandela: a true legend.
By Steve Tappin
Chief Executive, Xinfu, Host, BBC CEO Guru & Founder, World Of CEOs
www.twitter.com/SteveTappin
www.worldofceos.com
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www.bbc.co.uk/ceoguru
Management
expert Steve Tappin is the host of the BBC CEO Guru. The program
features in-depth, on-the-record interviews with some of the world’s top
chief executives, including General Electric's Jeff Immelt, Lenovo’s
Liu Chuanzhi, WPP’s Martin Sorrell, China Vanke’s Wang Shi, Wholefoods’
John Mackey and Unilever’s Paul Polman.
Steve is the
author of ‘The Secrets Of CEOs’, which interviews 200 CEOs on business
life and leadership. His latest book, ‘Dream to Last’, was published in
Mandarin in December 2012, by Beijing University Press, and will be
released in English later this year. Steve is the founder of global CEO
confidants Xinfu, which is based in London and Beijing. In this
capacity, he works with the CEOs of high-growth and Fortune 500
companies, to help them achieve long-term success. Steve also recently
launched ‘World Of CEOs’, a new venture that helps people to learn
about, engage with and become better CEOs.
Tuesday, 25 June 2013
Friday, 7 June 2013
BE LIKEABLE
Being
likeable will help you in your job, business, relationships, and life. All of the concepts are simple, and yet, perhaps in the name
of revenues or the bottom line, we often lose sight of the simple
things - things that not only make us human, but can actually help us
become more successful. Below are the eleven most important principles
to integrate to become a better leader:
1. Listening
"When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen." - Ernest Hemingway
Listening
is the foundation of any good relationship. Great leaders listen to
what their customers and prospects want and need, and they listen to the
challenges those customers face. They listen to colleagues and are open
to new ideas. They listen to shareholders, investors, and competitors. Here's why the best CEO's listen more.
2. Storytelling
"Storytelling is the most powerful way to put ideas into the world today." -Robert McAfee Brown
After
listening, leaders need to tell great stories in order to sell their
products, but more important, in order to sell their ideas. Storytelling
is what captivates people and drives them to take action. Whether
you're telling a story to one prospect over lunch, a boardroom full of
people, or thousands of people through an online video - storytelling wins customers.
3. Authenticity
"I
had no idea that being your authentic self could make me as rich as
I've become. If I had, I'd have done it a lot earlier." -Oprah Winfrey
Great
leaders are who they say they are, and they have integrity beyond
compare. Vulnerability and humility are hallmarks of the authentic
leader and create a positive, attractive energy. Customers, employees,
and media all want to help an authentic person to succeed. There used to
be a divide between one’s public self and private self, but the social
internet has blurred that line. Tomorrow's leaders are transparent about
who they are online, merging their personal and professional lives
together.
4. Transparency
"As a small businessperson, you have no greater leverage than the truth." -John Whittier
There
is nowhere to hide anymore, and businesspeople who attempt to keep
secrets will eventually be exposed. Openness and honesty lead to happier
staff and customers and colleagues. More important, transparency makes
it a lot easier to sleep at night - unworried about what you said to
whom, a happier leader is a more productive one.
5. Team Playing
"Individuals play the game, but teams beat the odds." -SEAL Team Saying
No
matter how small your organization, you interact with others every day.
Letting others shine, encouraging innovative ideas, practicing
humility, and following other rules for working in teams
will help you become a more likeable leader. You’ll need a culture of
success within your organization, one that includes out-of-the-box
thinking.
6. Responsiveness
"Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it." -Charles Swindoll
The
best leaders are responsive to their customers, staff, investors, and
prospects. Every stakeholder today is a potential viral sparkplug, for
better or for worse, and the winning leader is one who recognizes this
and insists upon a culture of responsiveness. Whether the communication
is email, voice mail, a note or a a tweet, responding shows you care and
gives your customers and colleagues a say, allowing them to make a
positive impact on the organization.
7. Adaptability
"When you're finished changing, you're finished." -Ben Franklin
There
has never been a faster-changing marketplace than the one we live in
today. Leaders must be flexible in managing changing opportunities and
challenges and nimble enough to pivot at the right moment. Stubbornness
is no longer desirable to most organizations. Instead, humility and the
willingness to adapt mark a great leader.
8. Passion
"The only way to do great work is to love the work you do." -Steve Jobs
Those
who love what they do don’t have to work a day in their lives. People
who are able to bring passion to their business have a remarkable
advantage, as that passion is contagious to customers and colleagues
alike. Finding and increasing your passion will absolutely affect your
bottom line.
9. Surprise and Delight
"A
true leader always keeps an element of surprise up his sleeve, which
others cannot grasp but which keeps his public excited and breathless."
-Charles de Gaulle
Most people like surprises in their
day-to-day lives. Likeable leaders underpromise and overdeliver,
assuring that customers and staff are surprised in a positive way. There
are a plethora of ways to surprise without spending extra money - a
smile, We all like to be delighted — surprise and delight create incredible word-of-mouth marketing opportunities.
10. Simplicity
"Less isn't more; just enough is more." -Milton Glaser
The
world is more complex than ever before, and yet what customers often
respond to best is simplicity — in design, form, and function. Taking
complex projects, challenges, and ideas and distilling them to their
simplest components allows customers, staff, and other stakeholders to
better understand and buy into your vision. We humans all crave
simplicity, and so today's leader must be focused and deliver
simplicity.
11. Gratefulness
"I would
maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude
is happiness doubled by wonder." -Gilbert Chesterton
Likeable
leaders are ever grateful for the people who contribute to their
opportunities and success. Being appreciative and saying thank you to
mentors, customers, colleagues, and other stakeholders keeps leaders
humble, appreciated, and well received. It also makes you feel great!
Donor's Choose studied the value of a hand-written thank-you note, and
actually found donors were 38% more likely to give a 2nd time if they got a hand-written note!
The Golden Rule: Above all else, treat others as you’d like to be treated
By
showing others the same courtesy you expect from them, you will gain
more respect from coworkers, customers, and business partners. Holding
others in high regard demonstrates your company’s likeability and
motivates others to work with you. This seems so simple, as do so many
of these principles — and yet many people, too concerned with making
money or getting by, fail to truly adopt these key concepts.
Which of these principles are most important to you — what makes you likeable?
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